The Art of Listening  

The different levels of listening are powerful in teaching how to truly hear what one is saying to another, not just through words , but through the emotions behind the words.

In Level 1 listening, we are present in the conversation 50% or less of the time because during the conversation, we are thinking about our own thoughts and what to say next.  These conversations usually leave people feeling like there was "just something missing".

In Level 2 listening, we are present 100% and conversing in a volley type manner.  We listen intently and then respond and vice versa.  We actually hear the words and can understand that there may be emotion behind them, but fail to "see" beyond the words.  This type of listening can produce a positive sharing of energy.

In Level 3 listening, we are fully present and listening beyond the words.  We hear, feel and understand what the other person is revealing to us from deep within.  Some might say we are able to see inside their soul.  Interestingly, the other person may not even be aware of what they are revealing.  A positive flow of energy is sure to occur.

If you tend be a Level 1 listener, practice concentrating on another person's words rather than your thoughts.

At Level 2, know that you are sharing and caring.

And realize that Level 3 listening takes practice, attention and sometimes, training.  However, the enhancements in relationships that occur here are priceless.

Give someone the true gift of listening today.

Peace, Love and Joy,

Dr L