Desires

Desires come from the center of our being.  We may have forgotten how to desire because our spirits have been humanized with crossed boundaries, heavy tolerations and unconscious expectations.  Remember, "desires" differ from "expectations" in that the person "desiring" is clearly able to express what they are hoping for from the "deliverer" without unhealthy "expectation" of a particular outcome.  This means that both people have choice.  That is, if the person "delivering" cannot meet the desire, they have a choice to state that truth and the person "desiring" has the choice to change the request or move forward. 

A true desire will not tolerate a crossed boundary or expect something unreasonable or unrealistic.  A true desire comes from the heart and soul of a person and when stated, energy arises to fulfill the request.  When desires are stated in relationships, communication must be enhanced to determine if the desire can be met.  This communication will change a paradigm.  This paradigm shift may lead to an enhanced relationship or a severed relationship depending upon the truth of what can be delivered. 

Ultimately, desire must be expressed in truth and in love and then followed by surrender to the outcome and an allowance of the Spirit to lead.   Many people are afraid to express desires because of the realization of the possibility that another cannot deliver the request and this may lead to an ending.  The truth is, sometimes an ending opens a door to a beginning that will exceed the greatest of desires!

Are you ready and willing to leave the "chicken coop" and express your deepest desires?

Go ahead...dare to live !

Dr L

Beginning with "Taming the Gremlins" 4 weeks ago and ending this week with "Desires", I have encompassed my coaching program, "Get Yourself Out of Your Way".  If you feel a need and desire to understand your self further in hopes of enhancing all relationships in your life, please call and commit to this "Powerful Program of  Personal Transformation ".